I'm just curious on the opinions of Tamil guys out there. Are you still traditional and expect a Tamil girl to be "pure" in the sense that she has never dated another guy?
I find Tamil guys are so judgemental now a days and have a one way street. They always feel like they can experience what is out there, and enjoy themselves but when it comes to finding themselves a partner, they expect their girlfriend to have been single her whole life or have never been with a guy before.
I believe that everyone should get out there and date different personalities. It helps you learn more about yourself and what you would like in a future partner.
Why are some of us so judgemental?


Comments for Tamil Guys Expectations. Why so judgemental?
Shan M.
May 30 2012 @ 09:20 pm
What about those guys that havnt dated any girls and waited for that one pure girl cause hes one pure kind of a guy :)
Mir G.
May 30 2012 @ 09:55 pm
its not fair !
Kugalojan S. [ PREMIUM USER ]
Jun 11 2012 @ 06:14 pm
im maybe bit old fashioned but i like my woman to be just for me. Im not saying that i will go around, but i still like to believe that love exists where you fall in love and marry
Kugalojan S. [ PREMIUM USER ]
Jun 11 2012 @ 06:19 pm
not "dating". Its just word used to convince yourself what your doing is right. Fall in love, marry them, live happy forever with them. By gods grace i hav a devathai who i cherish
Miimji T.
Jul 09 2012 @ 12:05 pm
If only it was as easy as.. you get to marry the first man you love. not many are as lucky....
John R. [ PREMIUM USER ]
Jul 30 2012 @ 06:02 am
Well, most indians are conservative in raising their female children. Traditionally tamil girls have that shyness and innocence. Most of us men still cherish that trait proudly ;)
Deep S.
Oct 02 2012 @ 01:14 pm
What a nonsense article about a whole bunch of people? This article might be true among guys but how could you put it on just one group? What about other state guys? x-(
Deep S.
Oct 02 2012 @ 01:20 pm
Its disappointing to see that these kind of generalized immatured artcles about a particular state's people are not deleted or banned by einthusan.com
Janalen K.
Oct 04 2012 @ 02:52 am
itz simple guyz. If u hv dated girls before you cannot expect ur partner to be pure(like u say) and viceversa
Jayaram prabhu D. [ PREMIUM USER ]
Oct 05 2012 @ 02:58 am
fk those guys !! u r totally right !! even now i know people who think guys can date many gals but gals cant !! that is soo not fair !!dnt give a shit; just carry on with ur life
Einthusan V. [ ADMIN ]
Oct 05 2012 @ 09:10 pm
@Deep, think of like a printing press that prints the newspaper.. not the newspaper company.. we do not try to censor any content.. if it has some truth, it is valid for a debate.
Prasanth N.
Oct 08 2012 @ 07:27 pm
Tamil Girls who live in cities are totally different from those who live in villages. Most city girls date and party alot once they start University.
Janalen K.
Oct 11 2012 @ 11:43 pm
the men and women are equal. If the guyz cans do something then the girls can also do it. Everyone z equal.
Mangoose B.
Oct 12 2012 @ 08:17 pm
so because everyone is jumping off a bridge you should too? just because guys are players it gives the girls the right to go whore around too?
Einthusan V. [ ADMIN ]
Oct 13 2012 @ 07:29 pm
Not to be an asshole but guys can walk around without shirts, can girls do that too?.. Equality does not mean equal actions.. it means equal respect, rewards, and punishments.
Janalen K.
Oct 14 2012 @ 01:00 am
u still saying that guyz can do whatever they want by calling them players. then then they are not players . They are called gigolos.
Mangoose B.
Oct 15 2012 @ 01:44 pm
@ Einthusan i agree with you 100% someppl would use the word feminism and equality to support any cheap behaviour. player/gigolo just b/c guys can do it doesnt mean girls should
Nivetha M.
Oct 19 2012 @ 01:48 am
I dont think it matters on how many people you date. As long as you find the right person it should be fine. I mean you cant just expect to meet a person,fall in love first time
Julian R.
Oct 20 2012 @ 01:27 pm
Im a Tamil Guy myself and completely agree to the post . Basically "Its the fear of what wud THEY think about me and what about the reputation of my family ?". Tamils,Indians,ALL
Einthusan V. [ ADMIN ]
Oct 21 2012 @ 07:54 pm
Everyone want something "better" than what others think they deserve.. applies to both guys and girls... a guy who had many relationships wont mind a girl who had a few. Cont..
Einthusan V. [ ADMIN ]
Oct 21 2012 @ 07:59 pm
However, usually he will not accept someone who has had say twice as many relationships compared to him.. it's just like how many girls want a guy who has an education.. Cont.
Einthusan V. [ ADMIN ]
Oct 21 2012 @ 08:01 pm
Just because you have a degree doesn't mean your going to make more than someone who doesn't .. Anyways, a girl who had less relationships values a "relationship" more.
Einthusan V. [ ADMIN ]
Oct 21 2012 @ 08:03 pm
But like the degree thing.. its not always true.. just a precaution sort of thing.. and both girls and guys want to make sure they're partner is "good enough".. i may be wrong.
Pasu S.
Nov 01 2012 @ 03:55 am
Einthu u should be mirror not any other things Plz dont comments u r à press .karthika's article about judgemental.never be judge corrcetly. But most % dont like bcos tamil guys.
Einthusan V. [ ADMIN ]
Nov 01 2012 @ 07:15 pm
@Pasu, not sure what you mean but sorry if I said something wrong.
Pasu S.
Nov 02 2012 @ 06:11 am
I said mirror never say look good or ugly simply reflect what ever front of it.up2thé public2 decideBy supporting à group u'll loose the support of other group.better be quite2gro
Pasu S.
Nov 02 2012 @ 06:18 am
I dont want to say people that dont visit einthusan be couse that is à western culture website or old village person run that site.
Einthusan V. [ ADMIN ]
Nov 02 2012 @ 10:52 pm
@Pasu, I totally understand what you mean now. That is very true, I will for sure keep this in mind next time. Thanks for your comment :) i learned my mistake.
Neo X.
Nov 05 2012 @ 06:44 pm
This is Generation "X". If you could find a person that is of pure in heart, consider yourself lucky. Any more expectations, you are setting youself to be heartbroken.
Neo X.
Nov 05 2012 @ 06:48 pm
.. we'll add Gen Y and Z in here too ..
Goldie12 R.
Jan 04 2013 @ 10:20 pm
I am a punjabi guy. Can a Tamil girl date a punjabi boy?
Sairaam V.
Jan 06 2013 @ 03:27 am
I feel sorry for the state in which u had written this!!!!! .. Truth ll always triumph... If u r true.. I hope u end good being true
Rolie P.
Feb 09 2013 @ 12:31 am
lol yes Goldie they can..just make sure the brother and father dont come beat u up..;)
Praveen N.
Apr 02 2013 @ 01:26 am
Well hey it dosnet matter unless you were raised in a village where the cherry is popped and they hold a festival for it,
Praveen N.
Apr 02 2013 @ 01:28 am
But come on 21 century here if any man cant take a girl for who she is I'll gladly take you in ;)
Praveen N.
Apr 02 2013 @ 01:29 am
and for admin comment on the shirt thing, you seem to say just beacuse a man landed on the moon a women shouldnt. Hey and girls do walk off with out a T its called a "BIKINI"
Maalathi M.
May 01 2013 @ 01:37 am
I'm a girl who grew up in a western country. There are still beautiful Tamil cultural values that need to be respected and cherished regardless of where you go